By Esther Kabia, Extern, LAWYERS
From what
I learnt, the interview room at LAWYERS had seen its fair share of tears, but
this was my first during an interview.
The young
lady came into the office on the 13th December 2011. I could see she was badly hurt, so I asked if
she had gone for a medical report and treatment. She boldly answered yes although she claimed
she had left the necessary documents at home (I learnt later that she had never
been).
She was evasive
and refused to face me. She was
reluctant at first, and referred to me as Isata when I had introduced myself as
Esther. I was at a loss. I had an opportunity to practice all I had
learnt about client interview, yet my client wasn’t cooperating and it didn’t
seem to be working. It seemed that the
young lady had not wanted to come forward on the issue. Perhaps she had done so to appease the lady
who had referred her to the office, someone whom I understood she held in high
regard.
I was
determined to make it work, and of work it did.
After almost 15minutes of meaningless chatter, she gave in. I encouraged, persuaded and cajoled her. She had been adamant, yet in an instant,
something snapped and she burst into tears.
I gave her a hog and this was when she warmed up to me and started
talking. Phew! My interview was on.
It turned
out she had an abusive partner. For any
trivial reason he would beat her up and then to add to her injury, he would
take their two year old daughter either to his mother or to a particular “lady
lover” of his. She had been cohabiting
with him since 2007 and this had always been the case. He provided n support for her she stated, yet
he always took part of her meager salary as a waitress at a local
restaurant. This had fueled the argument
which led to her severe beating this particular time. She said “I don’t want a case, I don’t want
to go to court, I don’t even want to return to his house. All I want is my daughter.”
I gave the
necessary legal advice and consolation.
I had a word with the Administrative Officer and set an appointment for
my client. My client left with a promise
to show up for the appointment (a promise she never kept) and my phone number.
My client
had left no contact number and when I visited her place of work I learnt she no
longer worked there. I spoke with the
Administrative Officer and she assured me this was no unusual occurrence. Some clients she said will not show up after
the first visit, would never call and that would be the end of the case.
I am
writing this post because I got call from this young lady. She sounded different. She informed me she had returned to her
village to reside with her mother and raise her daughter. She had been apprehensive of the legal
clinic, however, it turned out she had used it and part of what she gained
during out interview against her partner.
A partial illiterate himself, words like domestic violence, maintenance,
court, trial, human rights abuse had led him to take his leave of her she
stated. She stated that he sent an
undecided amount of money monthly for his child’s upkeep. She sounded happy and promised to come see me
at the office next she was in town.
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